How to Tell If Your Child Is Building Self-Confidence?
One of the greatest benefits of Brazilian Jiu Jitsu is the way it builds self-confidence in kids. Confidence isn’t just something they show in class. It is a life skill that follows them everywhere - at home, at school, at the playground even at the shops.
So, how do you know if your child is becoming more confident? Here are some simple, real-life indicators to look out for:
🏡 At Home
They speak up more. Whether it’s asking questions or expressing how they feel, they’re becoming more comfortable sharing their thoughts.
They try new things without hesitation. From helping cook dinner to learning to ride a bike, they become more willing to get out of their comfort zone.
They bounce back from mistakes. Instead of getting frustrated or giving up, they keep trying until they solve the problem at hand.
📚 At School
They participate in class. Hands go up more often and they’re willing to share answers or opinions without fear of being wrong.
They handle peer interactions better. They approach new classmates, stand up for themselves if needed, and handle disagreements calmly.
They take pride in their work. Homework, projects and tests are met with effort and focus because they believe they can succeed.
🛒 At the Shops
They speak to adults confidently. Whether it’s saying “thank you,” asking a cashier a question or ordering their own food, they engage without hiding behind you.
They show independence. They might carry the bag, count money or help you find what you need.
🛝 At the Playground
They join in easily. They’re more likely to play with others instead of hanging back and watching.
They try new equipment. The big slide, monkey bars or climbing wall no longer seem scary. They’re up for the challenge.
They handle falls and setbacks easily. A trip or stumble doesn’t stop them. They get up with a smile and keep going.
Confidence shows up in little ways, every day. It grows as children learn to trust themselves and their abilities. If you’re seeing even a few of these signs, your child is on the right track.
Martial arts (Brazilian Jiu Jitsu - BJJ) help unlock that confidence by teaching kids how to face challenges, solve problems and believe in themselves, both on the mats and in life.
If you’d like to learn more about how we help kids build confidence through Jiu Jitsu, feel free to reach out to any of our locations today to book a trial class today! We have a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu school in Seven Hills, in Rouse Hill and in Northern Beaches.